The fear of guest
fear, the day before yesterday I tried to show, has its meaning and justification. They are trying to protect.
We can screw up your eyes and say firmly "I see you did not." Or take the broom or equal to the baseball bat and chase the fear of the door, probably with shouts and roar: "We want you not! Get out! We are soo brave, let you just do not look back at us! "
Admittedly, the fear was not a very pretty face.
But she has to say something. After the initial shock, I say softly "Well, come a look." She sits on our sofa and I listen to her. I'll stay with her as long as they sit talking. I do not go away. I am not trying to silence them. I do not shove her biscuits in the mouth. I sit with her, breathe more and listen to her. This is all his. Sooner or later it goes again.
I leave there. It's okay that it's there. I did not befriend me in front of her. But I know that it soon goes away. They, too, the fear is part of a life lived life - - as well as sadness. The anger. The exhaustion. Our sofa is great. ;-) Feel
The feelings and leave. exercise to feel the fear and let go. Their own courage and your strength to get to know.
And the feelings of our dogs? Can also be there or weghexen we must quickly with praise and blame, treat, comfort, psychotropic drugs?
Have your dog on Friday
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